You’ll be hearing a lot more from me since I’ll be working from home through 2021. We’ve figured out what the little one wants Santa to bring her. I’ve gone to the doctor and got a lot of other errands run this week.
We’ve received a nice memo from our leaders and learned that we will continue to be working from home until March of 2021 at my company. I am all sorts of happy about this. I get to work from home! There are some people who actually go into the office for a couple of days a week, if they want. I’ll pass! However, I get to see my little one more often. Be safe by being away from people. Enjoy my two step commute. And I get to continue to work in my pjs. Kidding! I do get dressed for work. It may be jeans and a comfy tee, but I always do end up getting out of my pjs and dressed for work. I do this because you never know if I will need to be in a live meeting. I like to always be ready.
On Saturday I get to be at home and do a self care day. Recently I just love being at home. This weekend, I’ve decided that it would be a good day to take care of my skin and my hair. I am still going to donate my hair to Wigs for Kids. However, I will continue to let it grow during covid season. I am not willing to go to the hair salon at this time due to covid. So I will continue to let it grow until I am able to get to the salon and cut it all off. I am thinking of cutting it very short, even shaving the sides and a little longer at the top. We will see what my hairdresser can do. I’ve been looking through pinterest and I’ve found a cut that I like. Hopefully it will work the way I see it online.
On Sunday we play PokémonGo from home. It is community day for one of the characters and we are all caching them. In the afternoon, my little one wants to write a letter to Santa. We sit down and write a list of what the she wants under the tree for Christmas. It’s filled with Pokémon wants and Na! Na! Na! Surprise toys. I wish she would of wanted world peace lol. Guess she is too little for that. I remember my mom always wanting the same thing for Christmas every year. “Eu quero Paz e Sossego” she would say. Loosely translates to I want “peace and quiet.” She still asks for that, poor thing has never had peace and quiet. Well, maybe some quiet time within the last few years but no peace. Living with my father is no easy feat.
Later in the day, the family goes out to the store to do the grocery shopping. I stay behind and am taking care of the bills. I’m paying the mortgage, the lighting and water, the hardware stores, cable and much more. At the end of my payments I call my discover people and increase my credit line. I need some more on this card as they offer a lot of perks. The money back system that they have is very nice and I usually use to make purchases on Amazon. It’s a vicious cycle. But hey, every little bit helps.
So the stores are emptying out and my husband needs to go out to multiple locations to get what we need. Everyone is on covid alert as it is getting worst out there and everyone is getting scared again. He brings home the groceries and cleans everything with bleach wipes. I then put everything away in the fridge, freezer and cupboards. He then goes out again as I am continuing to put everything away. I’ve cleaned out the fridge in order to be able to add more items in there like milks and vegetables. It’s getting crazy out there.
In the evening we had a hurricane warning for my town in Long Island. We were all praying that the large trees in our yard don’t fall apart. We are always afraid the darn trees may fall on the house. We need to take these down, but this will cost us a ton of money. We will need a nice loan in order to get out all of the trees that are close to the house. The warning was only for an hour or so and luckily, nothing terrible happened in the yard. Only a ton of leaves that now need to be removed. Thank goodness all turned out well!!
It’s Monday and I wake up at three in the morning. I have the day off today, so I turn around and I force myself to go back to sleep. I must have really needed it because I then wake up at ten in the morning. My little one already had her first meeting of the day and I am still in bed. Bad mommy! Grandma is the one that gets her online and ensures she is on time for all of her meetings and classes. I eventually get up and have my breakfast. The greater part of the morning, I am working on the insurance information for my mother in law to ensure everything is up date and where it is supposed to be. She has received a bunch of mail and I have separated all of it and added them to folders. They are nice and organized now. I get on the phone with the insurance company and I am to be on hold for the next fifteen minutes. I will call them back later in the day so I will be able to actually talk to someone. All the while, all looks good insurance wise.
In the afternoon I am working on my classes for Business Analyst in Udemy. The courses are ok. I wouldn’t really recommend them. Maybe to anyone that does not know anything at all, they may be helpful. I’ve already gone on youtube and listened to a bunch of the courses available and the ones in Udemy basically go over the same thing. This is not really what I want to be doing on my day off, but when else can I do this?
It’s Tuesday and I wake up at three in the morning again. I figured I’d lay in bed until six or seven and then get up and go for a walk. Turns out, I fell asleep and got up at nine instead. I get up and have breakfast. I have off again today and am planning on taking my courses on Udemy. Instead, I am around the printer as it is not printing. The Wi-Fi is not working with the laptops. I eventually hardwire the printer to my laptop. After two hours of being around that darn machine did it finally start to work. I am now mentally drained and am not in the mood to do the course. I am instead simply listening to Lewis Howes How The LAW OF ATTRACTION Really Works. I’ve learned that “whatever you speak it expands.” And “don’t speak negatively, always look to the positive. Do little things every day in a great way!” I’m inspired, but not to do my course. Just inspired in life.
My little one wants a Baby Alive doll and we’ve placed an order through Amazon. They are all on back order and the seller has mentioned to me via email that they will not have the doll any time soon and to go ahead and request a refund. How nice of them, right. I’ve looked at other sellers on Amazon for the doll and they have it. The problem is the price has been upped to double the price. What a rip off. So I’ve gone to Target and they have the doll there for the right amount. And they will ship it to the house. I’ve realized that have to do my Christmas shopping now for my little one before everything is sold out or the prices are all jacked up. So crazy!
Meanwhile, I am looking for a new printer. Since the one that we have is no longer doing what it’s supposed to do, we have decided to go with a megatank type of printer. We may go with Canon since I can get a discount on the products. Or maybe we’ll go with a different brand. Not sure, we’ll have to do some research and see what is best for our family.
Well, my concentration today is the size of a gnat. Working on that darn printer took all of the wind out of my sails. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve already taken a couple of chapters of my course, but it’s getting close to four in the afternoon and I am ready to throw in the towel. Which, of course I won’t. I will get back onto the course and listen to a couple more chapters. I just wish that everything would stay in the brain. There is so much to learn and memorize that it’s difficult to get it all in the memory bank.
As I am working on my studies, the doorbell rings. It’s someone with an Amazon package. Don’t know why, but the man wants to hand me the package. Dear sir, leave the package right on the porch…thanks! So odd! It wasn’t anything special. We ordered two sets of headphones and they were special delivered. I noticed this delivery person was driving a sedan, not a delivery truck.
So, going to the door has made taken my mind out of learning. Instead I am working getting distracted via youtube. But it’s a good thing! I’m listening to How to Learn Better via Tedx talks. Hazel Wagner tells me that simply taking notes is just transcribing and not thinking about what you’re hearing or reading. She says “your brain is not organizing the information as it’s supposed to.” An interesting talk. I highly recommend it.

It’s Wednesday and I slept until about noon. Another day off and it looks like I really needed the rest. However, when I got up, I felt like I got hit by a truck. All of my muscles are hurting. I needed to walk around a little bit before everything warms up. I then have brunch while my little one is getting her math lesson by grandma. Thank goodness for grandma, she takes care of the little ones studies while I am being lazy and sleeping and taking some time off from working for the man. In the afternoon the little one takes a break from her studies and wants to play basketball. We get our warm clothes on and get outside to play ball. I teach her how to dribble and to steal the ball from me. She’s getting better and better at playing. At one point she is shooting three pointers and doing very well. We need to work on her dribbling, and then we’re in business. Shortly after, she is done with playing basketball and she wants to play soccer. We go inside, have a drink of water and swap balls. This time we go to the front yard and kick the ball back and forth. We then are running around kicking and playing. We both get tired and take a break on the front stoop. My little one gets a wave of energy and wants to run around again. She is dribbling the ball all over the front yard and I am yelling to ensure she does not get close to the street. Unfortunately, my road has been getting very busy in the last few years and we have a lot of cars which drive very fast on my road. The neighborhood has tried to get a stop sign or street light on my road since a lot of people drive way too fast on it. Unfortunately, the town decided it would be a better idea if they would place a speed counter instead. That’s too bad really. This street needs for everyone to slow down. There are a lot of kids and wild life that live around here and we all need to work together for everyone to live harmoniously.
After soccer, we get back inside and get to the basement and play with her toys for a little while. I try to teach her about social studies and the sciences and notice that I need to brush up on my social studies and sciences. I’ve been so into my work that I have forgotten about everything that I’ve learned in elementary school. Are there any good youtube channels for parents to help their kids with school?
In the evening I go to the doctor for a physical. I gave them so much blood my hand became numb. Plus, I got the flu shot. My left arm has gotten a beating tonight. With all of this blood taken out, we will find out if I am anemic and see how my cholesterol levels are also see if I have a thyroid issue. Also, I’m sure they will tell me to check my rheumatoid doctor as I always get a positive for lupus. I’m getting older and we need to check everything out. I truly hope all is ok and I won’t need to take any more medication. I already take enough for the brain. I don’t want to take more for the body. I’ve mentioned to the Dr. that my hair keeps breaking and falling and he mentioned it may be lack of vitamin B12 or anemia. We will see when the results come in.
It’s Thursday and I wake up at four in the morning as per usual. My husband also wanted to get up at four so I tried to wake him up. He answered me, but stayed right where he was. Laying on his back and snoring away lol. I shook him awake again and eventually he does awake. He then heads off to the bathroom and I decide that it’s a good day to get up early and get my studies on early in the morning. We have breakfast together and then, we hear little pitter patter. The little one woke up and came on over to the kitchen. She is sleepy and very upset that we did not wake her to be with us in the morning. My mother in law is up too and it’s a party at five in the morning at the Dias household. We turn on the tv so the little one can watch her cartoons and we get my husband ready for work. He goes outside to turn on his truck and we feel the cold air coming into the kitchen. The cold air makes our feet all sorts of cold too. It’s really feeling like winter is coming. He comes back in and gets all of his equipment to get out to work and we say goodbye by way of a hug sandwich. The little one is in the middle and we all hug each other. It’s cute! The little one thought up the word “hug sandwich.” She is very creative like that.
Once he leaves for work we all go our separate ways. The little one and grandma go to bed and I get on the laptop and am looking forward to taking my course on Business Analyst. But first, I listen to a Ted Talk. I’m obsessed with these. This one is really relaxing and it’s called Happiness is all on your mind. It’s a talk by a monk and I am learning about happiness and how meditation can help. In three minutes I am completely relaxed and not fidgety. There is an inner peace that I feel all over. Another talk that I really like, and that I’ve seen before is How to stop screwing yourself over by Mel Robbins. She talks about her five second rule. Count 5,4,3,2,1…now go do it.
A couple of TED talks later, I’m still not finished with my course. I’m having a lot of trouble concentrating today. Instead, I take a break and I get to the kitchen and get started on taking off the skin from one of the butter nut squashes. My mother in law is going to making soup tonight out of the quash. She uses the entire squash, adds carrots, sweet potatoes and all that grandma magic to make a delicious soup. After my kitchen break I go back to my studying. And here comes the procrastination again. It’s not difficult work at all. It is however, a lot of terminology to memorize. I’ve been typing it out, but holy moly this is a course that I would rather be in a classroom. Also, I’m not concentrating. Thinking about the mail that needs to be sorted. The holiday season that is approaching. Covid! The results from the doctor. The fact that I have another doctors appointment coming and how careful I’ll need to be because of covid. I’m also thinking about a return that I have to make to Walmart. I bought a pair of pants for my husband that were to be for work. They are supposed to be stretchy and light and large enough to fit him. Well, they fit me and I am five foot tall. He is six foot four and a big guy. These pants do not fit one of his legs, they are so small and tight. They were not made for big and tall. It’s more like tall and skinny. Now, don’t get me wrong, they made it easy to return. Simply print out the return slip and drop it off at your nearest fedex location. But now I’m going to have to remember to bring the package, bring gloves, bring sanitizer and whatever else I’m forgetting. Just to return something. So tired of this covid business. For Christmas I’d like for this whole thing to be a bad dream and be back to normal. Except for the working from home bit. That part I’m enjoying.
The other thing I’m thinking about is my yard. We have many trees with many leaves. All of those leaves are on the grass. Someone has to clean it up. That someone is most likely going to be me and my husband. It’s been cold and rainy and the leaves are all wet, not ideal for raking or using the leaf blower. I’d also like to read a book. I haven’t read one in a long time. The last one I read was a book by Marie Forleo called Everything is figureoutable. I have Jay Shetty on deck, he is the monk who turned into a motivational speaker. I’ve listened to his first chapter and have taken lots of notes.
All of this thinking and none of the actual work gets done LOL. Oh well, maybe tomorrow.
It’s Friday and I’ve decided, it’s the day to clean out my car. It’s been sitting in the driveway without being driven for months. It is lonely and dirty. Even the seats are getting a bit moldy. I get out a cloth and a bucket with water and soap and get to work. I clean up the dashboard, the seats and then I get out the vacuum. I haven’t vacuumed this car in so long, it has so much dirt that it takes me a long time to get it all cleaned up. After I vacuum, it is ready for an exterior cleaning. It’s chilly out so I decide it is best to go to the car wash to get the outside cleaned. I go to a drive through and it is safe from covid. I swipe the credit card on the machine and then I wait. No need to talk to anyone or be around others. There is however, a line at the car wash and I have to wait for a little while before it can get washed. I saw some people spay their tires before going in to get their car washed, and I thought, what a great idea. I will do that for my next wash. After waiting for what felt like an hour, I finally get the car into the garage to get it cleaned. Inside the garage, I start to feel a little claustrophobic. It is a bit dark and its gloomy in there while the brushes are doing their job. It’s when the soap hits the windshield that I really feel the enclosement. Ahhhh, get me out of here, I think to myself. Shortly after, the windows were cleaned and I could see out of them and I my heart stopped beating so darn fast. I’ve gone to this car wash before and it’s always the same deal. Every time that reddish, pinkish soap is added to the mix my heart starts to pound faster and faster and I am all sorts of discombobulated. I have to calm myself down in order to be able to continue with my day.

After the car wash, I drive out to my local church and drop off a few bags of clothing to their charity, St. Vincent de Paul. I’m sure this donation will go to good use. From my understanding, the charity has a thrift store where people can make purchases and the money made from there goes right to the needy. It is a good feeling when I can contribute something to society.
I run some more errands and eventually get back home. My little one was finished with school and she is ready to go outside and play. So I change my clothes and put on a warm sweat shirt and jacket and am ready to play with her. We get on swings for a little while and she wanted to talk about Pokémon. How much she loves them and how much she’d like a Charizard Pokémon plush or Christmas. Hint, hint mommy! There are a bunch of other Pokémon toys that she would like and I place them on my memory bank. I have to talk it over with grandma. Want to make sure grandma hasn’t already bought everything for her. After our talk we get to play the Pokémon game that she makes up where we both pick a Pokémon and then run around chasing each other. All she really wants to do is run and that’s ok. I get to get my exercise on for the day. I haven’t been to the treadmill in a while so this will take it’s place for now. She gets tired and we sit on the front porch for a little bit and she tells me other things she’d like for Santa to bring her. She likes the Na! Na! Na! Surprise dolls, who comes up with these names? And some more Pokémon items. My goodness she’s obsessed with these characters. And I am getting really tired of hearing about it, I just don’t tell her this. I don’t want to make her feel like her likes are not wanted. I then try to change the subject and ask her what she wants to do when she grows up. I’m tired of hearing about Pokémon and need for her to rest for a little while and keep her talking. So she responds with a little of a tude and tells me, mommy I’ve already told you, I want to be a doctor and an artist. What kind of doctor, I ask her. She says I want to work in pediatrics. And, I want to be an artist just like daddy. OK then, she’s got it all figured out LOL. I’m glad she’s got a path that she wants to take. As a kid I did not know what I wanted to do. I’m glad she has a goal in mind. After our talk it’s time to go and shoot some hoops. She is getting better at dribbling the ball. Today we work on passing the ball. Every time I throw the ball at her she closes her eyes and covers her face. Holly hell, this was me when I was little. So scared of the darn ball. By the end of our day she was starting to open up her eyes a little bit. I was passing the ball to the floor and she was more comfortable with that. When it was her turn to pass the ball she would wind up and throw it right at my face. It took a little while to get her to pass the ball the right way. But she got it. She started getting tired and at one point could no longer toss the ball into the hoop. She started getting angry at herself because of this and I announced it was time to give it a break and head inside. She wanted no part of that and wanted to get the ball in the hoop. I convinced her to take a break and get some water, sit down for a few and relax. After a little while she got back to dribbling and was able to get the ball into the hoop again. This was a teachable moment. You see baby girl, I tell her, when you are tired, you must take a break otherwise you will burn out and not do so great. We took a break, had some water and took a seat. And now you are doing much better. Now it is time to call it a day and head inside because it is getting colder and dark. She wanted no part of going back inside but eventually she complies and we head on in. I knew she was really tired when inside, she just sat on the couch nice and quiet watching some random cartoon daddy found on netflix. Can’t remember the name of the cartoon but it was loosely based on Dr. Seuss’s book Green Eggs and Ham. I watched it with her for a little bit and it was cute. Sam-I-am and Guy going on their adventure together. And there was the type of rhyming in the story like the books, very cute! We then had dinner and she at her entire plate of pasta and fish sticks. She has a huge appetite this evening. This is a good thing and a bad thing. She is going to be cranky in a little while because she is exhausted from the day and from playing. Low and behold, she did become cranky. We went out and played PokémonGo as a family in the evening and she was very sassy with all of us. We could sense she was ready for a nap. So, nicely enough, she fell asleep in the car as we went ahead and caught us some Pokémon. Yes, we are the Pokémon family. We play together and stay together. It is something to do while this covid thing is around us. Since we cannot get out of the house to go do anything fun, we instead hunt for Pokémon. It’s not ideal, but hey, it’s something to do and to get our minds out of bad things. Plus, we get to get out of the house for a few hours and drive around for a little bit.
As we drive around the neighborhood, we notice that a lot of people already have their Christmas decorations out. Everyone must be so anxious to get out of 2020 and head on to 2021. I feel the same way. Ready for the new year and for this pandemic to head its way out already.
It was a nice and relatively relaxing week off. I’ve done some cheating and looked at my work email and notice a lot of work waiting for me to do when I get back. We have Monday and Tuesday of next week at work and then Wednesday through Friday the office is closed for the Thanksgiving break. Can’t wait to have some family time.
Until next time.
Best,
-Isabel














